Some Things Have to End for Better Things to Begin
People glorify perseverance as the ultimate key to success. We celebrate the ones who “never give up,” who push through obstacles no matter the cost. But what if the real key to growth isn’t just endurance, but knowing when to quit?
Daniel Abrahams’ recent post struck a chord with me:
“The people who win aren’t the ones who never quit. They’re the ones who quit the wrong things to create room for the right ones.”
That line stayed with me. Because quitting, when done with intention and clarity, isn’t failure, it’s strategy.
I know this from experience.
Walking Away from 1st National Bank – The Hardest Yet Wisest Decision
For years, I poured my energy into transforming 1st National Bank St. Lucia, taking it from a struggling institution to one of the fastest-growing banks in the Caribbean. We won prestigious Bank of the Year awards, executed a major Royal Bank of Canada acquisition, and built a thriving corporate and retail banking powerhouse.
By all accounts, I had “made it.”
But beneath the surface, something wasn’t right.
The culture at the highest levels was toxic, resistance to change, leadership blind spots, and an unwillingness to acknowledge reality. I found myself fighting battles that shouldn’t have needed fighting. I saw complacency where there should have been vision. I raised concerns, pushed for innovation, and fought to protect the bank’s long-term interests—but met resistance at every turn.
I was at a crossroads.
I could stay and fight indefinitely, losing myself in the process, or I could walk away, not because I wasn’t committed, but because I knew that staying in a dysfunctional system would diminish my ability to lead effectively.
So, I made the call.
I quit.
The Aftermath – The Truth About Quitting
Leaving wasn’t easy. It felt like abandoning something I had built with my own hands. There was doubt, would people see this as giving up? Would it be perceived as failure?
But then something powerful happened.
The moment I stepped away, I saw with absolute clarity that I had made the right decision. Toxic environments don’t just hold you back, they shrink you. And when I left, I expanded.
Opportunities emerged that I never could have imagined. I joined Unicomer OECS, a multinational powerhouse, where I now lead operations across six countries, mentor leaders, and drive real impact, all without the dysfunction that had drained me before.
Quitting didn’t set me back. It launched me forward.
Why Smart Leaders Quit
The world tells us to push through at all costs but the best leaders know when to cut their losses and move forward.
- Quitting isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom. Recognizing when something no longer aligns with your values or growth trajectory is a sign of self-awareness, not failure.
- The cost of staying is often greater than the cost of leaving. Every moment spent in a dysfunctional environment is a moment you could be using to build something greater.
- Real success isn’t about holding on, it’s about knowing when to let go. The people who thrive aren’t the ones who never quit, but the ones who quit the wrong things to make space for the right ones.
How to Know When It’s Time to Quit
If you’re stuck in a situation, be it a job, leadership role, or business venture, ask yourself:
- Does this still align with my values and vision? If the culture or direction of the organization contradicts what you stand for, you’re fighting a losing battle.
- Am I growing, or just surviving? If you’re spending more time managing dysfunction than driving impact, it’s time to reconsider.
- What would happen if I left? If you know, deep down, that leaving would open more doors than staying, then you already have your answer.
The Exception Code – Why Quitting is Sometimes the Most Exceptional Move
At #TheExceptionCode, we challenge conventional wisdom about leadership, success, and what it means to truly thrive.
Most people believe exceptional leadership means never quitting, never backing down, never walking away. But true leadership is about knowing when to pivot, reset, and make bold choices that protect your long-term success.
Sometimes, that means quitting.
Not as an escape. But as a calculated move toward something greater.
Final Thought – Make Room for the Right Things
Quitting 1st National Bank was the hardest decision of my career, but also the best one. It reinforced one of my biggest leadership lessons:
You cannot build an exceptional life or career if you stay in places that diminish you.
So, my question to you:
Have you ever had to quit something to make space for something better? What happened?
Let’s have this conversation. Drop your thoughts in the comments.
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